Common Reasons Men File for Tennessee Divorce

Speak with a Collierville divorce attorney if your husband is filing for divorce. Studies show that divorces are usually initiated by women. A 1991 report from the National Center for Health Statistics noted that roughly two-thirds of divorces are initiated by women, with variations over time. Among college-educated couples, some information suggests the percentage may increase even more.

With more college-educated women who are engaged in steady careers, they have the financial resources to move out and move on. In years past, some women may not have had the resources to do so if they were financially reliant on their husband and lacked the education or job training to find gainful employment.

Still, men may also initiate divorce. Some issues in a marriage may be unsettling for the man and cannot be resolved. When a man does file for divorce, his reasons for divorce may be different from the reasons a woman may cite when seeking a divorce.

So what are men looking for in marriage and what factor will cause them to seek a divorce? The following are some possible reasons that men may initiate the process. If you are considering filing for divorce, consult a Collierville divorce attorney to discuss your legal rights and options.

Common Reasons for Divorce 

Sex may be one of the biggest problems in a marriage. Many men equate physical intimacy with sex, so it can be frustrating to a man when he is always in the mood, but his wife isn’t. It may also be the other way around, as some women may enjoy sex more than their husbands. When either spouse complains of too much or too little sex in the marriage, problems may result.

If a man’s sexual needs are not being met by his wife, he may communicate his displeasure, but if nothing changes, then his other choices may be to continue living in a marriage that lacks intimacy, engage in adultery or consider filing for divorce. Although it may sound silly to some to divorce over sex, it is often an important part of a marriage.

Financial concerns may also be a cause for divorce. This is especially true if the husband is the main source of income in the household. If the woman does not earn an income, there may be disagreements about how the money should be divided up and spent. Note that this may also be reversed if the circumstances are switched. If rules about how money should be spent are not discussed early in the marriage, then finances may be a major factor in a divorce later on, especially if one spouse made a major purchase without the other’s consent.

Sometimes just having different expectations of each other can cause marriages to crumble; this is often true for men. A man may have trouble communicating his wants and needs clearly, and when his wife does not do things the way he expects her to, or vice versa, it can cause tension in a marriage. Sometimes, one spouse may raise the bar too high. When certain standards are not met, it may cause negative feelings toward the other spouse. If the negativity persists, the man may decide that it’s time to move on.

Contacting a Lawyer 

Filing for divorce is never an easy experience. It is a process fraught with tension, stress and drama. However, a divorce is often necessary in order for both parties to move on with their lives. A marriage cannot thrive if there is constant unhappiness on behalf of one or both partners.

Seek legal assistance when getting divorced. Tennessee divorce laws can be confusing, and you need a legal professional with knowledge of the laws. Contact a Collierville divorce attorney from Miles Mason Family Law Group.