Top 10 Reasons Why Memphis Women File for Divorce

Memphis women remain a mystery to most men for their entire lives. Why the ladies file the majority of divorce complaints is, perhaps, just another enigma for the opposite sex to contemplate.

Seasoned Tennessee divorce lawyers, however, are much wiser. They have heard just about every reason imaginable (and some unimaginable) as to why women seek divorce from their husbands of two years, 10 years, and four decades.

Here is a handy compilation of the top 10 reasons why women file for divorce (Listen up guys!):

10. “He can’t keep a job.”

Any ongoing financial problems can wreak havoc with the marriage. But chronic unemployment, laziness, or repetitive behavior that gets the husband fired (routinely late for work, excessive sick days, or employee theft) can be very frustrating. If problems with his work continue for too long, she may decide that being alone is the better way to live life.

9. “He’s never here to help.”

Marriage is a two-party system with both spouses having obligations. Why should she be the one who always carries the heavier burden?

8. “I don’t love him anymore.”

There is often an emotional component that stands alone as a reason for divorce; she doesn’t feel anything anymore. When love is passion, the loss of fire may be perceived as a loss of love and affection. For some women, they just get tired of all the other problems on this list and fall out of love.

7. “I can’t take his abuse any longer.”

Domestic violence never helps a marriage.

6. “He’s got problems.”

By living with someone, you get to know whether they have mere quirks or significant psychological problems. Perhaps he’s addicted to gambling or spends all of his time gaming online. Maybe he is irrational or moody, and she has tired of always being on edge wondering what will happen next. If he refuses to recognize that he has a problem and rejects serious help, she may want out of the marriage.

5. “We’re just not compatible.”

Just because you love someone does not mean you can live with them. Some people are so incompatible, they cannot seem to agree on anything. The relationship is antagonistic, unharmonious and, well, tiresome.

4. “He’s not the man I married.”

People change and couples drift apart. Raising a family, differences in education, career influences, retiring after lifetime employment, these events usually change people and their relationships. Many women pine for the man they married, recognizing change in their spouses but less aware of the changes in themselves.

3. “I can’t take his drinking and drug use anymore.”

Chronic substance abuse leads to all kinds of problems. Domestic violence increases. Job opportunities decrease. Home life may become unbearable.

2. “He’s cheating on me.”

Even in the most progressive marriages, sexual infidelity disrupts harmony and can push the wife over the edge.

Here it is, the top reason women file for Tennessee divorce…

1. “He never listens to what I say.”

That’s right, the number one reason why women file for divorce is a lack of communication with their husbands. Poor communication skills, not taking time to talk about marital concerns, ignoring or downplaying her opinions, or spending more time caring for the needs of the family dog. Failure to engage in regular, honest, open communication with your spouse can cause a serious break down of the marriage.

The unfortunate consequences of an unhappy marriage are separation, divorce, and less time spent with your children. Before the marital relationship becomes so unstable there seems to be no way back, consider marriage counseling. You may be able to clear the air and make important adjustments in how you treat each other. Consider mediation with a neutral facilitator who may help you resolve lingering conflicts. Try individual or group counseling to help you focus on identifying and achieving your personal goals. Although there is no guarantee that marital ills will be cured, at a minimum these processes can help improve communications and ease tensions prior to filing for divorce.

Divorce Attorney in Memphis, Tennessee

The Miles Mason Family Law Group handles Tennessee divorce, child support, alimony, child custody, and parent relocation. Download our free e-Book, Your First Steps: 7 Steps Planning Your Tennessee Divorce. A Memphis divorce lawyer from the Miles Mason Family Law Group can help. To schedule your confidential consultation, call us today at (901) 683-1850.